How Much Sex Is Normal?
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I'd like to say just a few words about the following wrong belief that active sexual life can increase your potency. Don't you know that this statement is wrong? Ok, I've already written about sexual promiscuity and that the situation when a man has a lot of sexual partners may result in a failure rather than increase his sexual potency. But I haven't touched upon the subject relating to average rate of sexual contacts per a month, for example, that would be normal (or, may be, good) for an average adult male person. Well, you already know that sexual promiscuity isn't great for your body (especially taking into account the risk of getting venereal diseases) but you want to get the definite answer to the question - how much sex is normal? Let me tell you right now that a valid answer to this question cannot be given. There is no rule that the more sex you have the more potency you get!
More or less?
Who can answer the question precisely - how many times in a week should you have sex? Only you can give the exact answer because only you feel what you need, how many times per week you need, and whether it suits you or not that you have now with your sexual partner or partners. Well, there are some standards announced by the psychologists but does it mean that you must be unhappy if you don't meet them? No way! But if you can feel something that makes you unhappy or unsatisfied with the rate of sexual intercourses you have, you should know the psychologists' opinion on this theme. Psychologists say that an average man between 30-35 years should have 3 sexual intercourses per week. A man from 50 to 60 years - about 2 times per week. And after 60 year his sexual activity decreases. It is not a rule but such sexual activity is considered as an absolutely normal one. There are a lot of cases when couples have sex one time per week, or even per month! If both partners are pleased with such rate, there is no reason for concern. Moreover, very often a lot of different circumstances interfere in our plans: I mean our level of health, our occupation, mood and so on. As for me and my wife, our sexual activity depends on our mood mostly. To be honest, my wife needs more times per week than me. And I even can predict that she, for example, may want this evening to have sex with me. Of course, I can refuse because of my tiredness, for example. But I can also get a pill of Viagra, for example, and turn our usual evening into the something much more pleasant for me and her. You may ask me: what to do in the situation like this, when you want sex but your partner dosen't want it? I'll leave you to sort that out! Just try to be happy!
